How to help your teen choose a career path

It’s normal to worry about what your teen’s going to do after high school but remember, they’re probably just as nervous as you are, if not more so. Here are some guidelines for helping them make good choices about their future.

Support but don’t hover
Think of yourself as the foundation of your child’s support system. Give them the tools needed to make informed decisions but don’t attempt to make choices for them. Similarly, teach them how resumes and cover letters work, but don’t write them yourself. Let your teen choose and follow their path autonomously.

Identify their strengths
As a parent, you likely have unique insight into your child’s strengths and abilities. Are they good at organizing their thoughts and presenting them clearly? Do they work better alone? These traits can offer clues as to which potential careers would be a good fit for your teen. You might be tempted to tell your child they’d make a great lawyer but try not to box them in. Instead, help them identify their talents and areas where they can be put to good use.

Push passion not prestige
Even if you’re convinced your child would make a great doctor, don’t push them down that path unless they’re interested in it. Spending 40 hours a week doing something they’re passionate about is a lot easier than spending the same amount of time doing something they don’t care for.

In addition to offering your own guidance, encourage your teen to consult a career counselor in your area. These professionals can provide further strategies for choosing a career path.