Travel
Three tips for a successful first trip with your significant other
Traveling with your significant other can be a source of both pleasure and tension! Because emotions tend to run high in new environments, you may discover a side of your partner that you didn’t know existed, especially if you don’t live together. In order to ensure the smoothest trip possible, follow these pieces of advice!
1. Define your expectations
What type of trip are you hoping for? Relaxing, or filled with adventure? Do you intend to stay in a luxury hotel or to rough it outdoors? Wake up at the crack of dawn or sleep in? Rush to not miss a beat or live in the moment? Plan your trip together to avoid unpleasant surprises while abroad, and always be ready to compromise!
2. Decide on a budget
Determine a realistic budget and decide who will be paying for what (lodging, food, etc.) before you leave! It’s also important to figure out your priorities: do you both want to devote a good portion of your budget to a single big activity, or would you prefer using that money to see and do as much as you can?
Hitting a few bumps in the road? Talk about it! Communication is vital, especially since you’ll constantly be in each other’s company and won’t have the means to relieve tension as you normally would at home. Learn how to put things into perspective. You missed your bus? The airport lost your luggage? There are worse things in life. Relax, breathe and make the most of the situation. You also might want to avoid putting half the blame on your significant other when things go awry.
Finally, don’t hesitate to meet other people and do certain activities separately. After all, back home, you’re not together 24 hours a day. You can reunite and share the details of your day over a romantic dinner come sundown!
