Mixing in: etiquette for after work events

Off-the-clock receptions and cocktail hours are still work related, experts say, so bring your work manners even after hours.

How people handle these after-work functions can make or break careers.

Dress properly. Never go too casual at ‘business casual’ events. Never be the worst dressed attendee at such a function.

Arrive on time. Take the lay of the land by noting the location of food, bar and amenities.

Be prepared. If alcohol is being served, eat before arriving so you won’t have a drink on an empty stomach.

Choose carefully. If food is being served, choose only those foods that can be eaten with a fork or toothpick.

Work the room. Find groups of people engaged in light conversation rather than serious discussion and always ask before joining the group. Introduce yourself then listen as each participant is named. Repeat names to help memorization.

The Balance also recommends that attendees keep open body language throughout conversation, focus on listening intently, and involve everyone in the discussion. While it is acceptable to talk about non-work-related topics, remember not to bring politics, finances, gossip, or controversial issues into the mix.