Three words that can cause problems

There are people who do have a “way with words.” They speak in prose, and they use clear words that everyone understands.

Even those who have the talent can be defeated when they inject “no,” “but” or “however” into their statements. Whether at home or at work, those who use them can sabotage themselves. Consider these:

“I love you, but … .” (Never attach a complaint to a positive statement).

At work, it could be, “No, that idea won’t work,” Instead, give constructive ideas on what would work.

The third self-defeating word is “however,” as in “That certainly has merit, however … .” This is a thinly veiled attempt to prove someone wrong.

Some people feel a need to be right all the time. No one is.